oh Beth, im so sorry to hear this, and hope I can help with the pain some, I know it hurts to hear her say this,but i've seen in the older patients, most of them say these things, and they even say them to us when we're working on them, and I always give them my best attention and my most loving care..but it still hurts when it's your own loved ones...my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, I'm in the hospital now myself with pneumonia and asthma,or i'd lite my special candles at home for her....wish I could do more, you are a wonderful, wonderful gracious lady yourself and I hate to hear you going through so much pain....and i've found out, the hardest thing to do is letting go.....love you Beth...and i'll be thinking about you...glyn