Hi Doug,

Thanks for posting:)
I think you can learn a lot when you compare your work with others.

Comparing doesn't have to mean "Better."
Subconsciously, I think most here probably do compare how their songs with others:)

It's like going to the gym and seeing someone with bigger muscles, and you're like geez! lol
It can also work the other way, when you see someone who is not as 'built' as you:)

You noted that Special is a word that others give you, not one you would normally give yourself, true to a point!

But I'm sure those gifted with an Undeniable Gift/Talent
like the Voice of Aretha Franklin or Whitney Houston,
or the playing of Jimi Hendrix, or an Actress like Meryl Streep, These people knew there was something Special about them.

Not saying that any of us here would put ourselves on par with those greats, but it's okay if we embrace what's Special about us.

Thanks again for responding!-Dana