If I was the husband, Mike, every I said about the father (of the daughter) stands, as written.

It would be complicated by my own personal feelings about her, the possibilities of "being a dad"...wondering about her value system...

...basically everything the father of the daughter might feel, times ten...I'd probably take it personally, and think that it was me, somehow...if it came "out-of-the-blue" ie, my wife and I weren't arguing, and I thought she always wanted kids then yeah, it would come as a shocker...but...this is me being "everyman"...which is me trying to be "moral" here...

But truly, I am probably the wrong guy to ask, cuz the girl of my dreams dumped me in my twenties, lol...and I've never been keen on kids...so...I would probably understand my wife's decision... smile




Last edited by Michael Zaneski; 04/14/12 10:18 PM.
Fate doesn't hang on a wrong or right choice
Fortune depends on the tone of your voice

-The Divine Comedy (Neil Hannon)
from the song "Songs of Love"
from the album "Casanova" (1996)