"How do you see yourself?"
Blessed
"How do you see them?"
Confused
"From where did you arrive at your viewpoint?"
The Bible and the Spirit
"Do you disagree with anything that I wrote above?"
Yes.
"So you assert that there are Christians who hold a "hateful narrow minded Christian" cliche version of the rapture which is untrue."

If you're a Bible believing Christian and don't understand the Rapture/Armageddon, all you need is a little more study time. However, it's Christianity in general that is sadly becoming a "Hateful Narrow Minded" cliché. In fact, political opposition to Christianity has become blatantly adversarial.

You stated earlier...
"In realistic terms civilization is "kinder and gentler" today than it has ever been. Obama got that right."

Question for you; If Christ Jesus returned today, the same way He came to us 2000yrs ago, do you believe the world would accept Him?