Truely John,I am sorry for the loss of your mother,I lost mine not long ago and it leaves a hole in your life that is hard to fill. But I will see her again in Heaven,she was a beliver in Jesus Christ,as I am, we are promised by the Word that we will rise again or be raptured to be with Him,Jesus,on that last day. To those that are being lost,this teaching is foolishness, but to those that believe,it is unto salvation.