I am not religious, I am Christian, there is a world of difference. In religion man reaches up and tries to please and unknown and uncaring God, in Christianity, God reaches down to man in love, sent His son to reach and teach us how we should treat each other. Not all claiming to be Christian are really Christians, wolves in sheep's clothing. The tares and the wheat parable tells us that. Christians are not perfect, only forgiven. We make mistakes but God is just and faithful to forgive our mistakes if we ask. I don't pretend to be Holier than another person, just forgiven for my short comings. Without Jesus I would never make Heaven, with Him I will. It is available to who so choose, many will and did, many more will not.